Early Twenties vs Late Twenties: The Pros and The Cons

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Day 4 of 31
Here we are. Another day, another blog.

If you are or have ever been a twenty-something, I can bet that you’ve spent a great amount of time pondering life. Uninvited bouts of introspective anxiety creep into your mind in the wee hours of the night. Where am I going? What am I doing? What’s going to happen? What is my purpose? Why hasn’t [whatever everyone else seems to easily achieve] happened for me yet? Should I go vegan? These troubling questions plague the sanity of the average twenty-something. Our twenties are the first decade of adulthood. For most of us, it’s the first taste of independence and real responsibility. You finally get to be a person! It’s all so new and overwhelming, yet somehow we feel pressured to have all of our shit together by 23.

Side note: The further I get away from 23, the younger it appears to be. Why the hell was I stressing at 23???  Who the hell would have all the answers to life at 23??

I’m now in my late twenties and I still don’t know much about anything. Yup, still lost. I may have a stronger sense of self, higher level of  self-esteem, more cash flow, and some clarity on my life path, but I’m still overwhelmed by adulthood.  What comforts me is knowing that it does get a bit more manageable overtime.

Early Twenties

FOREVA 21!

FOREVA 21!

Pros:

  • So much time. SO MUCH TIME. Build yourself. Start on your goals. Or….make mistakes! It’s fine. I promise. Take risks! You have more time than you think to redeem yourself.
  • Faster metabolism.
  • Energy
  • Higher tolerance for everything (alcohol, club lines, horrible jobs, bullshit)
  • Can snapback from a hangover in just a few hours
  • Sooo many friends
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Cons:

  • Sooo confused about problems with obvious solutions
  • Sooo scared to follow your intuition
  • What will everyone think/say about my choices?!
  • Sooo scared to speak up 😡
  • Pinchy shoes
  • Minimal experience with a lot of things

 

Late Twenties

Artsy +Afro = Grown AF (I'm kidding)

Artsy +Afro = Grown AF (I’m kidding)

Pros:

  • Sensible shoes
  • More chill about life
  • Having your shit more together-ish
  • Relationships are so much easier (you can spot a fuckboy way sooner than before)
  • You’re more direct in what you think and what you want #CommunicationSkillsAF
  • Faster resilience from adversity (breakups, disappointments, defeat, etc)
  • Realization of self-worth
  • A better relationship with the word “no”
  • A better relationship with the phrase “I gotta go home!”
  • A better relationship with yourself
  • More experience = more $$$, more <3, more knowledge
  • Fake-wise (When you think you wise, but you really aren’t. But you are wayyy smarter than you were a few years ago. This post is fake-wise)

Cons:

  • Lower energy
  • Slower metabolism 🙁
  • Dressing up requires a real special occassion
  • Hangovers are THE WORST
  • The list of “problem areas” grow longer
  • Friendships can get weird 🙁 (thanks to growing apart,relocation, babies, marriages, or just ya know life stuffs)
  • You start to understand money and bills (you finally realize you will have to pay to live for the rest of your life)
  • Harder on yourself
  • New adult pressures are suddenly put upon you (babies, marriage, and anything else people expect women to have by 30)

 

In conclusion, every stage of life has pros and cons. Water is wet. The sky is above. Ok check back tomorrow for another random blog. #BlogEverydayinMay

 

 

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